“I struggled and flailed a lot the first couple years of college, until I found my new identity, my new purpose,” Bonta Sumii said. “That is why this work is so important to me. I want to provide something I didn’t have and desperately needed.”
For Bonta Sumii, the stigma of asking for help remains one of the biggest hurdles in getting players the help they need and wants players to understand that everyone faces obstacles in their life, they're human, the response to those obstacles is crucial, equipping them to do so is key.
“We’ve seen it over and over again in high-level women’s soccer,” Bonta Sumii said. “High profile, over-achieving, high performing players don’t want to ask for help. They think if they do, they are weak. They want to make the people around them proud and look ‘strong.’ The staff and coaches are often cut from the same cloth, also managing the adversities of their lives.”
Additionally, along with performance on the field, athletes are trying to manage multiple stressors that could include academics, intimate relationships, teammate dynamics, coaching styles, jobs, and the needs of family members back home.
“A lot of folks who look very strong on the outside and perform at a high level are actually breaking on the inside,” Bonta Sumii said. “They pretend that they are okay. We need to equip coaches, staff, and teammates with the proper questions and the proper resources to help people live their lives, literally and figuratively.”
One of the topics Bonta Sumii stresses is the issue of athlete identity with female soccer players.
“You see, with a lot of female soccer players, their identity is based solely on how they perform. ‘If I’m playing well, then I’m a good person. If I’m not playing well, then I’m less than—and I don’t feel good about myself.”
Much of what Bonta Sumii hopes to accomplish revolves around teaching the women playing in the WPSL that they are more than just soccer players. And that it’s ok to discover and develop other aspects of who they are.
“We want to help them realize that they are more than just soccer players. We aim to show them that they can be many different things, and it’s okay not to define themselves solely by soccer. Embracing and expressing other aspects of their identity—like being a student, partner, family member, musician, community member, social activist, or a good friend—can actually make them better players.”
Reduction in anxiety: Players who practiced relaxation techniques reported a 22% reduction in pre-game anxiety.
Improvement in concentration: Players who practiced controlled breathing had a 20% improvement in concentration during high-stress moments in matches.
Penalty kick success rate: Female soccer players using relaxation techniques saw an 18% higher success rate in penalty kicks compared to a control group.
One of the greater challenges the WPSL poses in dealing with the mental health and well-being of its players is the continuum of life stages they are in, across the league. The same team can feature talented youth players still maneuvering the social rigors of high school and college, all the way to players who are partnered with children.
But mental health does not end with the players. Bonta Sumii said supporting teams’ technical and administrative staff is essential: “They need to be ‘well’ and supported so they can pour their focus into the players,” she said.
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